Uluslararas\u0131 16. Kocaeli Kitap Fuar\u0131\u2019nda \u201cD\u00fcnya K\u0131z \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 G\u00fcn\u00fc\u201dne \u00f6zel d\u00fczenlenen s\u00f6yle\u015fide psikolog Serdar Vatansever, k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6zg\u00fcvenli bireyler olarak yeti\u015fmesinde aile deste\u011finin belirleyici rol\u00fcne dikkat \u00e7ekti. \u201cK\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 \u00d6vmeyen Dizini D\u00f6ver\u201d ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 s\u00f6yle\u015fide deneylerle anlat\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 zenginle\u015ftiren Vatansever, k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n desteklenmesinin yaln\u0131zca bireysel de\u011fil, toplumsal bir kazan\u0131m oldu\u011funu vurgulayarak, \u201cK\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funa yat\u0131r\u0131m, gelece\u011fe yat\u0131r\u0131md\u0131r\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
\u201cKIZ \u00c7OCUKLARININ HAYALLER\u0130 DESTEKLENMEL\u0130\u201d<\/p>\n
Kocaeli B\u00fcy\u00fck\u015fehir Belediyesi\u2019nin organizasyonlu\u011funda d\u00fczenlenen Uluslararas\u0131 16. Kocaeli Kitap Fuar\u0131, \u201cD\u00fcnya K\u0131z \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 G\u00fcn\u00fc\u201d kapsam\u0131nda anlaml\u0131 bir bulu\u015fmaya ev sahipli\u011fi yapt\u0131. Psikolog Serdar Vatansever, \u201cK\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 \u00d6vmeyen Dizini D\u00f6ver\u201d ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 s\u00f6yle\u015fisinde k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n geli\u015fiminde ailelerin rol\u00fcn\u00fc, \u00f6zellikle baba-k\u0131z ili\u015fkisinin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n gelecekte kuraca\u011f\u0131 ili\u015fkiler \u00fczerindeki etkisini anlatt\u0131. Deneyler ve interaktif anlat\u0131mla zenginle\u015fen programda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n kendilerini \u00f6zg\u00fcrce ifade edebilmelerinin ve hayallerinin desteklenmesinin \u00f6nemi \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131.<\/p>\n
\u201cB\u0130REYSEL DE\u011e\u0130L, TOPLUMSAL KAZANIM\u201d<\/p>\n
Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n toplumsal hayattaki g\u00fcc\u00fcne ve ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131na de\u011finen Vatansever, mesleki ya\u015fam\u0131nda \u00e7ok cesur kad\u0131nlarla tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirtti. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n bir\u00e7ok alanda \u00f6nemli ba\u015far\u0131lara imza att\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ifade eden Vatansever, k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n desteklenmesinin yaln\u0131zca bireysel de\u011fil, toplumsal bir kazan\u0131m oldu\u011funu vurgulad\u0131. \u201cK\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funa yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yat\u0131r\u0131m, toplumumuza yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yat\u0131r\u0131md\u0131r\u201d diyen Vatansever, \u00f6zellikle babalar\u0131n k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla kurdu\u011fu ili\u015fkinin \u00f6nemine dikkat \u00e7ekti. Bu ili\u015fkinin yaln\u0131zca babayla s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirten Vatansever, abi, day\u0131 ve amca gibi aile b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinin de \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n kendilerini tan\u0131malar\u0131nda ve gelecekteki ili\u015fkilerini \u015fekillendirmelerinde etkili olabildi\u011fini anlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n
\u201c\u00c7OCUKLAR SAM\u0130M\u0130YET DEDEKT\u00d6RLER\u0130D\u0130R\u201d<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n yeti\u015fkinlerin davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 ve duygular\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczden daha iyi fark etti\u011fini belirten Vatansever, \u00e7ocuklarla kurulan ili\u015fkide samimiyetin belirleyici oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi. \u201c\u0130nsan sevildi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yerde \u00e7ocukla\u015f\u0131r, \u00e7ocuk h\u00e2line d\u00f6ner\u201d diyen Vatansever, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n kendilerini g\u00fcvende ve de\u011ferli hissettikleri ortamlarda daha rahat ifade edebildiklerini vurgulad\u0131. Kendi \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumuzda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z deneyimlerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 etkiledi\u011fine i\u015faret eden Vatansever, ebeveynlerin ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 duygular\u0131 fark etmelerinin \u00f6nemini anlatt\u0131. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n aileleri taraf\u0131ndan g\u00f6r\u00fclmemesinin ilerleyen y\u0131llarda ili\u015fkilerine yans\u0131yabilece\u011fini belirten Vatansever, \u00e7ocukluk d\u00f6neminde anla\u015f\u0131lma ve de\u011fer g\u00f6rme ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131lanmas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemine dikkat \u00e7ekti.<\/p>\n
\u201c\u00c7OCUKLARIN HAYALLER\u0130N\u0130 DUYMAK \u0130ST\u0130YORUM\u201d<\/p>\n
S\u00f6yle\u015fiye gelmeden \u00f6nce \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n hayallerini dinlemek istedi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc belirten Vatansever, \u00e7ocuklara yaln\u0131zca ne yapmalar\u0131 gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6ylemenin yeterli olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ifade etti. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n kendi hik\u00e2yelerini olu\u015fturmalar\u0131na f\u0131rsat verilmesi gerekti\u011fini vurgulayan Vatansever \u015f\u00f6yle konu\u015ftu: \u201c\u00c7ocuklarla \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken bir \u015feyi \u00f6\u011fretmenin en iyi yolu, bilgiyi eksik b\u0131rakmakt\u0131r. Hi\u00e7 kimse hik\u00e2yesini kendi tamamlamadan \u00f6\u011frenemiyor.\u201d \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n hata yapmalar\u0131na izin verilmesinin \u00f6\u011frenme s\u00fcrecinin \u00f6nemli bir par\u00e7as\u0131 oldu\u011funu belirten Vatansever, ebeveynlerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 kontrol etmek yerine onlar\u0131n deneyim kazanmas\u0131na alan a\u00e7malar\u0131 gerekti\u011fini dile getirdi.<\/p>\n
\u201c\u00c7OCUKLARI YARGILAMAYIN, ANLAMAYA \u00c7ALI\u015eIN\u201d<\/p>\n
Ebeveynlerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n, onlar\u0131n kendileriyle kurduklar\u0131 ili\u015fkiyi de etkiledi\u011fini anlatan Vatansever, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n s\u00fcrekli yarg\u0131lanmak yerine anla\u015f\u0131lmaya ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi. Yeti\u015fkinlerin kendi i\u00e7 seslerini ve \u00e7ocukluklar\u0131ndan ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131klar\u0131 yarg\u0131lar\u0131 fark etmelerinin \u00f6nemine de\u011finen Vatansever, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n hata yapt\u0131klar\u0131nda kendilerini de\u011fersiz hissetmemeleri gerekti\u011fini vurgulad\u0131.<\/p>\n
KIZ \u00c7OCUKLARINA \u00d6ZG\u00dcVEN A\u015eILAYAN S\u00d6YLE\u015e\u0130<\/p>\n
\u201cBir \u00e7ocu\u011fa en b\u00fcy\u00fck y\u00fck, kendi kurtar\u0131c\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayamayan anne babad\u0131r\u201d s\u00f6zleriyle ebeveynlerin sorumlulu\u011funa dikkat \u00e7eken Vatansever, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n her sorunun \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc tek ba\u015flar\u0131na bulmak zorunda b\u0131rak\u0131lmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini ifade etti. Deneylerle desteklenen s\u00f6yle\u015fi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n yo\u011fun ilgisiyle devam etti. Programda verilen mesajlar, k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n hayallerine kulak vermenin, \u00f6zg\u00fcvenlerini desteklemenin ve kendilerini de\u011ferli hissetmelerine imk\u00e2n tan\u0131man\u0131n \u00f6nemini bir kez daha ortaya koydu. S\u00f6yle\u015finin sonunda Serdar Vatansever\u2019e, Uluslararas\u0131 16. Kocaeli Kitap Fuar\u0131\u2019na kat\u0131l\u0131mlar\u0131ndan dolay\u0131 plaket takdim edildi.<\/p>\n
\u015e\u0130\u0130R D\u0130NLET\u0130S\u0130YLE PROGRAM SONA ERD\u0130<\/p>\n
Serdar Vatansever\u2019in s\u00f6yle\u015fisinin ard\u0131ndan sahne alan P\u0131nar Bekta\u015f ve k\u0131z\u0131 Almila Bekta\u015f, seslendirdikleri \u015fiirle dinleyicilerin y\u00fcre\u011fine dokundu. Anne-k\u0131z\u0131n duygu y\u00fckl\u00fc performans\u0131, programa anlaml\u0131 ve unutulmaz bir final katt\u0131.<\/p>\n
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Kaynak: (BYZHA) Beyaz Haber Ajans\u0131<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Uluslararas\u0131 16. Kocaeli Kitap Fuar\u0131\u2019nda \u201cD\u00fcnya K\u0131z \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 G\u00fcn\u00fc\u201dne \u00f6zel d\u00fczenlenen s\u00f6yle\u015fide psikolog Serdar Vatansever, k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6zg\u00fcvenli bireyler olarak yeti\u015fmesinde aile deste\u011finin belirleyici rol\u00fcne dikkat \u00e7ekti. \u201cK\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 \u00d6vmeyen Dizini D\u00f6ver\u201d ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 s\u00f6yle\u015fide deneylerle anlat\u0131m\u0131n\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11488,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4635],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11487","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kultur-sanat"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vansondakikahaberler.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11487","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vansondakikahaberler.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vansondakikahaberler.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vansondakikahaberler.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vansondakikahaberler.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11487"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/vansondakikahaberler.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11487\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vansondakikahaberler.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11488"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vansondakikahaberler.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11487"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vansondakikahaberler.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11487"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vansondakikahaberler.com.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11487"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}